Share – No 22 – Life must go on – Everything about your life is positive – Protected by the Energy Force
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From: GaryStevenGevisser <garystevengevisser>
Subject: Share – Re: No 22
Date: November 20, 2016 at 10:50:29 PM PST
To: Ayala Kaplan <ayalahk>
Those calls were from me trying to reach you when the phone disconnected as you got to my mother’s apartment.
You had a lot of accusatory things to say to me and now after you sling your arrows you tell me that you cannot cope.
That email I sent you was very much on point and centered around what my mother wants. It also tells you how two-faced are my siblings.
You know about birds of feather!
Don’t suddenly play stupid and victim.
My mother Zena’s life is at stake and you are quite rightly going frantic because the videos show my mother in a vastly different state of mind than what you all have been portraying. Moreover, you know how easy it is to confuse an 87 year old human as her “cage is rattled”.
You know perfectly well that my mother was not acting in those videos to hide her “advanced dementia”. Or do you think that my mother is such a good actor, she had you all fooled?
You cannot have your cake and eat it at the same time.
How long do you think you could keep up playing “advanced dementia”?
You also misled me when trying to bait me with you question?
Before commenting on the video “The Lady’s Speech” tell me
how many years had you not seen your Mom?
You never told me that you had a problem reading or that you were already in touch with my siblings and heard all that the bad they had to say about me; and you thought it wise to plonk yourself in the middle until I responded with a well thrown pitch, “Everything about your life is positive”.
Given how I now know better than to trust you, and I very much doubt you will connect me up by telephone with my mother, I must redouble my efforts to at the very least bring public international attention to her plight!
Go back to sleep!
When I get up tomorrow morning and not at 6AM as you instructed while telling me you only had 15 minutes to spare with me, and remember we are talking the quality of life of my very accomplished mother Zena who you also knew so very little about because you too were not close to her, much the same as my terrible siblings, I will be sharing everything, just as you wanted with Kathy, Neil and Melvin.
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On Nov 20, 2016, at 6:27 PM, Ayala Kaplan <ayalahk> wrote:
Dear Gary,
It is 4.30 in the morning.
You are inundating me with mail and calls.
.I don’t have the time or energy to cope with it.
Please leave me alone.
I wish you well.
Ayalah
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From: gg <gary>
Subject: Holocaust hero or villain who collaborated with Nazis?
Date: November 20, 2016 at 10:10:17 AM PST
To: Ayala Kaplan <ayalahk>
Holocaust hero or villain who collaborated with Nazis?
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From: GaryStevenGevisser <garystevengevisser>
Subject: Life must go on – Re: Zena
Date: November 20, 2016 at 9:26:22 AM PST
To: Ayala Kaplan <ayalahk>
Ayalah – I just replied to this email. “Everything about your life is positive” may have ended up in your “trash” because of its 6691 words where most were my important conversations with Kathy-Neil-Melvin that they obviously hadn’t shared with you.
You shouldn’t have forgotten that it is not only you who knows why my 32 word first sentence of the first letter published in the Jerusalem Post also couldn’t have been improved upon.
It may interest you to know that Paul Bogdanor who was featured in yesterday’s Jerusalem Post
went to sleep last night with the horror of The Diamond Invention book which again exposed all my immediate and extended family with the exception of my parents and grandparents, and Bogdanor’s decision to clam up on me, will soon be revealed to the Jerusalem Post.
Im sure most Israelis are going to be shocked by Mr. Bogdanor’s exposure so soon after he made “News Headlines”.
Life must go on, despite my mother Zena being held captive.
To the elimination of darkness on this most beautiful sunshine day here southern California’s most beautiful forest.
Gary
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From: GaryStevenGevisser <garystevengevisser>
Subject: Everything about your life is positive – Re: Zena
Date: November 20, 2016 at 9:06:31 AM PST
To: Ayala Kaplan <ayalahk>
Thank you for trying. If you could try tomorrow, I would appreciate that.
My telephone number is 1-858-736-4982.
It would also be cruel to prevent my mother Zena from speaking with me, since it is clearly her wishes. Nor has my mother ever been upset to speak with me.
You only let me know when I called today that my siblings and/or Mary-Lou have been talking to you, and since you asked me, you should ask my siblings the question of why my mother who hadn’t seen me in 15 years would be so very warm and loving towards me at the same time most clear in her choice of me, and not them.
Of course you noticed how most expressive was my mother in her disappointment of my siblings, both her eyes and head motion.
Physiognomy is important especially when it is clear that the video is not “scripted”; moreover, like you everyone is having the most difficult time when seeing not just this video but the others I sent you, reconciling how someone with “advanced dementia… absolute no memory” could speak so fluently and lucidly on such materially important matters and for such an extraordinary period of time; and no breaks.
The fact that my mother only got upset, frowning, when asking why she needed to have her caregiver come with us to go to the produce market, “We are not children”, did not go unnoticed by all those profiting from my mother now being held captive.
Weak energy people; i.e. bullies, love to see the strong taken down. So yes, my mother Zena has been fighting very hard from within as she has used her common sense to withdraw over the years to protect herself from the vultures.
The amount of their talking would take less time than for you to read the chronology of events beginning on September 8 [scroll down] when I wrote my siblings my “Sitting Pretty” communique. My siblings and their lawyer Ayala Wiesel who maintains that she is a close friend of the family for 30 years and yet you say you haven’t ever met her, and nor had I ever met prior to this trip, also received these taped phone conversations I had with my mother prior to my arrival in Israel; and of course they were not happy to hear what my mother had to say, especially since someone with “advanced dementia” couldn’t possibly be as articulate or consistent.
(1) Subject: I would like to spend the rest of my life near you (July 11, 2016)
Zena Ash Gevisser Zulman, “…I would like you to be here with me; I would like to spend the rest of my life near you; I don’t just like talking on the telephone.”
(2) Subject: Everything about your life is positive (July 20, 2016)
Gary: What do you most remember about me; what most comes to mind?
Zena: That you are lucid; that you believe in things, that whatever you want you try to get done; everything about your life is positive, what else would you want me to say?
Gary: What about Melvin?
Zena: I was saying I don’t have any contact with Melvin. I don’t have a point of view. We don’t have any discussions. Melvin doesn’t come into my thinking.
Gary: He doesn’t call you up?
Zena: No
Gary: What about Kathy?
Zena: No
Gary: She doesn’t call you up?”
Zena: Not really, She came here and then she said she was here and that’s it. She will tell me that maybe she will come again but she doesn’t tell me what year.
Gary: What do you most remember about Kathy?
Zena: She’s my daughter. [Note the Zena Gevisser laugh].
Gary: Anything else?
Zena: No
Gary: What about Neil?
Zena: He’s my son.
Gary: What do you remember most about him?
Zena: Nothing; he’s my son.
Gary: How would you describe Neil?
Zena: As my son.
Gary: That’s it?
Zena: Yes.
(3) Subject: I only want to know if you love me – July 31, 2016
Gary: Do you have any questions for me?
Zena: I only want to know if you love me.
Gary: Well that I do.
[Consistent with The Lady’s Speech on September 22]
(4) Subject: I don’t think my other children believe in anything (July 23, 2016)
Gary: Let’s come back to me; I want you to tell me again how you would describe me?
Zena: Are you my youngest son?
Gary: Yes
Zena: You are very nice, I like you. That’s it.
Gary: Would you say that you like your other children?
Zena: In their own way, but they are not like you.
Gary: In what way am I different?
Zena: [Laughing] O Dear. You’re just different okay. You’ve got a point of view. There are things you believe in that you see to. I don’t think my other children believe in anything.
The maid-caregiver has a very good job and she wants to keep it, and that means keeping my siblings happy. I can also understand my siblings hating me because they have never behaved right with my mother; at least nothing compared to how I have so respected my mother.
All 3 of them have hated Alan Zulman from the start, and so it is not a good thing that they would be so two-faced towards him, even if their goal was to grab his estate, wouldn’t you agree?
Also since they have been giving you only their side of the story, to ask them why they didn’t contact me when Alan died and why they also disconnected the phone as they have now done again.
They want you to believe that I have psychological problems but of course they offer no proof, because no proof exists; on the contrary my mother also doesn’t hesitate in describing me as “lucid”. These type of comments have been used for years to put people away when they have no arguments; the burning of the witches is not so far away.
I can hold my own far better than my siblings in every category of importance; again why it is that I am my mother’s choice.
Those who are enabling my siblings will of course get their comeuppance long before meeting with our maker; at least that has been my entire life experience; and so you don’t need to pity me for all the great rewards I continue to receive.
This is just one of life’s challenges and I have never stepped away in taking on bullies as well as exposing the truth to the light, because that would mean that in my choice to be spineless my future fate as a shellfish would also have me in the same company as the rest of the selfish. Yes, I also believe that the spineless should practice breathing underwater.
It is all about what everyone else wants out of my mother. It is not about my mother Zena. Long by now my mother should have been asked the questions I put to her; and for that of course my siblings are not the only ones who are now acting so defensively.
It is not my mother that has issue with me, it is the siblings.
Again, my mother hadn’t seen me but she sure hadn’t forgotten how very consistent I am about her care, and why there was no hesitation in why she doesn’t want Kathy, Neil or Melvin taking care of her.
What Jewish mother, especially one as worldly as my mother would have a lawyer placed as her guardian? That is sick.
I am 59; and at 21 when going through all the psychological and quantitative testing before joining De Beers, I got to see the reaction of people when confronted with their corruption, and they become only interested in what they have to say.
My sister Kathy’s only training is that of a social worker in South Africa where she too missed the boat entirely.
So yes, South Africans, and in particular Jewish South Africans have the most difficult time knowing that they didn’t really know my mother who knew better than to tell secrets. Being one of my sister Kathy’s teachers, there is a lot you can still teach her.
You must recall, because I was videotaping as we all walked together, my mother commenting to you, “I don’t tell secrets”.
When you don’t know whose hands you are going to end up in, especially someone such as mother who kept the important matters very close to her chest, and believe that Alan Zulman would long outlive her, it is better than to talk to talk.
My mother Zena has spoken very eloquently, and any question about the passage of time should be quickly answered by how it didn’t look like anything had been lost between my mother and me during the past 15 years, because nothing had.
Since when do family who spent a lifetime together need to be constantly in each others company to make their “acquaintance” when the conversations center around money, sickness, gossiping badly about others before turning on each on other?
Neither my mother nor I invented internecine fighting.
It should be quite transparent to you as it is to my mother how very healthy I am, my French-Canadian wife, Marie Dion and our dog Mango who also only eats very healthy vegetarian; and you can see that there is no loss in any of our brain muscle either.
People with little intelligence have great difficulty feeling stupid – Marie Dion Gevisser
Lack of Knowledge-Information-Light-Energy, power to change the world stems from humans being lazy and fearful of embracing the truth – MDG
The truth is too disturbing for some people too busy keeping track of their lies – MDG
Being non-confrontational is no excuse for bad judgment – MDG
I am fighting hard for my mother’s quality of life and that does not mean that she sits all day in front a TV and go out for an hour a day.
What sort of guardian would employ as my mother’s caregiver someone who doesn’t drive?
Yes, I know you like very much Mary-Lou but as I told you when we were walking and my mother listening very carefully to what I have to say, as she has done my entire life, I said that it is wrong to get close to help, especially so in the case of an elderly person who has a vast amount of wealth and to be able to afford several caregivers which allows also for there to be closer scrutiny.
When family leave an elderly member in the hands of a caregiver and it would be no problem for the favorite child to take care of their mother, and then place an additional buffer, a lawyer as the guardian to supervise the caregiver, it stinks to high heaven.
My mother hasn’t even been taken down to the beach to bath her feet.
This maid was supposed to take off time when we arrived but that is not what my sister Kathy had in mind. It was a set up from the start and the evidence is irrefutable.
People understand evidence; the better the evidence the better the proof.
Few to none people that I know have my experience both in running very successful business enterprises as well as taking on the biggest gangsters; but I have never come close to witnessing such evil other than of course growing up in South Africa it was totally evil and the jealousy that surrounded both my parents from their immediate families was not something either my mom or dad tried to hide from me.
The chronology is most important.
Only after I demanded at the start of my “Sitting Pretty” that Kathy, Neil and Melvin reconnect the phone did things start moving in a positive direction. [CLICK HERE]
If need be, I am not in the least bit afraid to bring more public attention to this outrage.
Of course this is all about money, jealousy and resentment; and yes there are other factors involved including Alan Zulman’s son Lance whose lawyer-friend Shmuel Rabi a nephew of Deborah Sturman Esq. who Alan had replace Kathy as his executor, sent me the following:
From: דבורה לואיס <devora0527678711>
Subject: your mother Zena Zulman
Date: October 27, 2016 at 8:13:31 AM PDT
To: garystevengevisserDear Gary
I am writing to you on behalf of your mother Zena. I write to you as I understand that you may still be in Israel.
As a friend of Arye zulman it has come to my attention that the funds he used to support your mother and her household were cut off and that he can no longer be involved in her affairs.
This has been mentioned to your mothers guardian Ayala Vizel and i do know that she has funds enough. however so far she has not stirred herself in any way and i worry that now without Arye’s help your mother may be plunged into darkness by the electric company or some such thing.
best regards
yours
Shmuel Rabi
Below are the email communications between Kathy-Neil-Melvin and me starting with the “Sitting pretty”.
(1)From: BigPond <dkdanz>
Date: 09/21/2016 01:15 (GMT-08:00)
To: GaryStevenGevisser <garystevengevisser>
Subject:Gary,
Apparently you are arriving in Israel today. Unless you can get money from Deborah Sturman for your food etc. you will have to support yourself as Mom and Mary Lou only have enough for themselves and the dogs.
Kathy
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